Some experts will tell you that cats are independent creatures. They’ll say that even your beloved kitty only “likes” you because you feed him or her. Cats are only about their own survival, and they only deal with humans to further that survival.
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Cats Don't Care?
Some experts will tell you that cats are independent creatures.
They’ll say that even your beloved kitty only “likes” you because you feed him or her. Cats are only about their own survival, these experts say, and they only deal with humans to further that survival.
That’s what these experts say—but anyone who’s ever been owned by cats knows that the people in cats’ lives are not just important to them, emotionally-speaking, but vital.
The Reality of the “Aloof” Cat
Those of us that love and have cats can tell you from experience: cats are not at all “aloof”, or “uncaring. We know our kitties miss us when we’re gone, and that they can become very depressed over the loss of another cat, another household pet, or their human.
Our Jordan grieved for months after our other cat, BuzzSaw, suddenly passed away. Likewise, Bucky, our Australian Cattle Dog Mix, was so depressed when Jordan passed that, instead of waiting ‘til Summer, we thrilled him by bringing home two new kittens only a few weeks after Jordan went on to the Rainbow Bridge.
You may never quite know why, and it can take awhile, but yes, cats frequently bond to the people they’re around, even cats who were once feral.
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What Makes a Cat Bond to You?
There are a number of theories about why a cat will bond with you, not someone else – but the truth is, there can be numerous causes.
It could be your manner that attracts them; it could be your voice. It could be your scent, or simply the vibe you give off. Whatever their reasons, once a cat decides to make you their “one”, it becomes completely obvious to everyone around.
Cats can be choosy about who they bond with, because, like humans, their personalities vary. Some kitties are naturally friendly and chatty with everyone. Others seem seriously aloof, but warm up after awhile… and yet others only ever offer real affection to their “special” person or fellow four-leggeds. Some cats only care about one person in the household, while others will notice when any person in the house is “missing”.
Whatever your kitty’s style, the more time you spend around him, that the more patient you are, the more he or she will bond with you.
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You, The “Chosen One”
Once (if ) a cat finally chooses you, it will show its preference in many ways.
Some will become “lap cats”. Some will snuggle up to you only when you sleep. Some will “head-bop” to let you know they now own you.
Others will fall at your feet and demand to be petted. Many cats will cry for you when you’re gone, and some will actually run to greet you when you return.
In short, though “experts” are sure cats only love themselves (and even we sometimes joke about it), real cat people know they’re full of litter.
It's Not Just About "Survival"
Those of us who love and live with cats know cat’s aren’t just about picking the best survival chance. Each cat has its own personality, and each one loves those they choose deeply.
We know that, as you live with and enjoy your cat over the years, the bond you create with them will grow strong and ever stronger–and it will never be broken.
